In his book "Dreams From My Father," Barack Obama explains that Lolo Soetoro, his stepfather, asked him if he would rather be strong or weak. Lolo remarked, "Better to be strong." As Obama prepares to visit Indonesia in March, he should view the Papuan question from the point of view of the "weak man," and if he acts on Papua, maybe then in Indonesia there will be a recognition that a strong man is one who assists the weak.